Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay

"I got lost following Enzo, who could say proudly: Without her I wouldn't be able to do it. Thus he conveyed to us his love and devotion, and it was clear that he liked to remind himself and others of the extraordinary quality of his woman, whereas my husband never praised me but, rather, reduced me to the mother of his children; even though I had an education he did not want me to be capable of independent thought, he demeaned me by demeaning what I read, what interested me, what I said, and he appeared willing to love me only provided that I continually demonstrate my nothingness." 

Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay
Elena Ferrante